In a candid conversation on their podcast Lost In Translation, Gemma Atkinson and Gorka Marquez revealed that despite being engaged for five years, marriage is not in their future. The couple, who have been together since meeting on Strictly Come Dancing in 2018, made it clear that they are perfectly happy without a wedding.
Gemma, 41, and Gorka, 35, have a strong bond, sharing two young children together — daughter Mia, six, and son Thiago, two. However, when asked by a listener about their wedding plans, Gemma was quick to respond, saying, “I ain’t getting married to him. No chance.” Gorka agreed with her sentiment, stating, “I don’t think I want to get married.”
Why Marriage Isn’t in the Cards for Gemma and Gorka
Gemma and Gorka have been engaged since Valentine’s Day 2021, but it seems the prospect of walking down the aisle is simply not part of their plan. “Everyone I know who has got married has ended up getting divorced, apart from my sister,” Gemma pointed out. Gorka added, “We are fine like this, we have two children, marriage is just a document, for a legal thing.” The couple’s perspective on marriage reflects their belief that their bond is stronger than a piece of paper and that their focus remains on raising their family and enjoying life together.
While the decision to not marry may seem surprising to some, the couple’s contentment with their relationship speaks volumes about their priorities. For them, marriage isn’t necessary to define their commitment and love for each other.
Marriage for the Kids? Gemma Explains Her View on a Wedding
Despite their firm stance against marriage, Gemma did acknowledge that she had considered the idea of getting married, if only for the sake of their children. “My mum was saying to me the other day, when it comes to my will, she was saying how much more complicated it is,” Gemma shared, explaining that there could be logistical reasons for considering marriage. Gorka, initially confused by Gemma’s comment, jokingly responded, “It’s not about you, you idiot, it’s about the kids. I need to put it in a will.”
This lighthearted exchange reflected their easygoing approach to a potentially serious topic, yet it also underscored their practical considerations about family and future planning.
Difficult Times and Gorka’s Departure from Strictly
Although their relationship appears solid, Gemma has also been open about the challenging moments she’s faced with Gorka. In a previous episode of their podcast, Gemma recalled a time when Gorka’s behavior frustrated her, prompting her to joke, “Shut the f*** up Gorka,” as he walked around their house inspecting things. She described how Gorka had been overly critical about things that weren’t even his concern, like the kids playing and rearranging their toys. Despite her frustration, Gemma’s affectionate tone revealed that these moments are just part of the dynamics in their relationship.
Another significant change in their lives is Gorka’s departure from Strictly Come Dancing. The professional dancer recently confirmed that he is stepping down from the show, after making the decision last year to reduce his involvement due to conflicting schedules with Dancing With The Stars Spain. Gorka’s departure marks the end of an era for the dancer, who expressed his gratitude for everything Strictly has given him. He posted an emotional message on Instagram, thanking the show and the BBC for allowing him to build a career, find love, start a family, and make lifelong friends. However, he also stated, “Now it’s time to take a step back, enjoy the sidelines… and hopefully hold up a few paddles and give out some tens along the way.”
While Gorka may no longer be a part of the Strictly family in a professional capacity, he continues to stay connected to the dancing world through his upcoming appearances on the Strictly Pro Tour.
Moving Forward: Embracing the Present and Future
Although Gemma and Gorka’s views on marriage may be unconventional, their commitment to each other is clear. They’ve built a happy life together, with two beautiful children and a shared passion for dance and family. Whether or not they choose to marry, they seem to be content with the life they’ve created, focusing on raising their children and enjoying their journey together.
As Gorka transitions away from Strictly, the couple is entering a new chapter in their lives, one that will no doubt come with both challenges and exciting opportunities. Whatever the future holds, Gemma and Gorka are clearly a team, ready to face whatever comes their way — and it seems they don’t need a wedding to make that official.
Looking Ahead: The Future of Gemma and Gorka
It’s clear that Gemma and Gorka have built a strong foundation based on mutual respect, love, and understanding. As they continue their journey together, their decision to not marry reflects their personal values and approach to life. For them, it’s not about following societal expectations — it’s about what makes them happy and what’s best for their family.
With Gorka stepping away from Strictly, and Gemma continuing to navigate her career and motherhood, the couple’s future is filled with possibilities. They may not be walking down the aisle, but they’re certainly walking through life hand-in-hand, ready for the adventures that lie ahead.
