Christine McGuinness, the ex-wife of TV presenter Paddy McGuinness, has revealed that she is on the lookout for a wife three years after their divorce. In a candid new interview on the It Started With A Kiss podcast, McGuinness, 38, opened up about her sexuality, love life, and the type of relationship she is seeking in the future.
In the interview, McGuinness—who has been open about her dating experiences since her split from McGuinness in 2022—discussed her identity as a “five-star lesbian,” and expressed her desire to one day have a wife. She clarified that this wouldn’t be a traditional marriage, but rather a “blessing” and a celebration of love. She said, “I would love to have a wife one day, not like a legalized marriage, but like a blessing, a celebration of love and all of that, I would love to just be saying, ‘this is my wife.’”
She also explained that she enjoys the concept of a “double life,” where she maintains her personal and professional lives separately. While she values her time with her three children, McGuinness enjoys the freedom of stepping into a different world when she is in London. However, this dynamic has led to complications in her relationships. She joked that, while she is comfortable with this arrangement, her partners often ask, “When am I going to meet the kids?” and “Are we doing this forever?”
McGuinness was married to Paddy McGuinness for 11 years, from 2004 until their separation in 2022. Together, they share three children. Despite the end of their marriage, the pair co-parent amicably and remain focused on ensuring their children’s stability. McGuinness emphasized that she does not want any more children, explaining that she’s clear with her partners about this from the start.
During the podcast, McGuinness also spoke candidly about her experiences with sex and relationships since her divorce. She revealed that she enjoys a very specific kind of intimacy, including her interest in “Japanese bondage,” or Shibari, which she described as a way of experiencing vulnerability and emotional connection. She explained that Shibari isn’t necessarily about sexual pleasure but about trust, letting go, and understanding one’s desires.
In addition, McGuinness shared a story about her first kiss with a woman after her divorce. She remembered it as being “so soft and so nice and so feminine,” a moment that made her realize she had always felt a connection to women, but was never able to explore that part of herself while married to McGuinness. She expressed how liberating it was to finally embrace this side of herself.
As a neurodivergent person, McGuinness also discussed the complexities of dating while navigating her autism diagnosis. She admitted that dating can be overwhelming, as she experiences a mix of excitement and confusion when meeting new people. This has led to her canceling many dates in the past, preferring instead to focus on connections that feel more natural and comfortable.
Though McGuinness is still in the process of exploring her sexuality and dating life, she has made it clear that she is not interested in rushing into a serious commitment. She described her current relationship status as being in a “situationship,” where she is dating but not necessarily in a committed relationship. McGuinness has enjoyed dating both women who are outside the public eye and those within the industry, but she stressed that she values slow, meaningful connections over anything rushed.
While she is enjoying her personal freedom, McGuinness expressed that she doesn’t completely rule out the possibility of a future with someone special. Her openness about her sexuality, desires, and expectations in a relationship has been a major part of her healing journey after her divorce. She has embraced her identity fully and is focused on finding love that aligns with her true self.
This latest interview sheds light on Christine McGuinness’s journey of self-discovery, her pursuit of happiness, and her openness about her relationship desires. With her focus on building a future with the right partner, she’s determined to embrace love in her own terms.
As McGuinness continues to explore her sexuality and relationships, her candidness is likely to resonate with many, especially those navigating their own journeys of self-acceptance.
